Ok l hated It the whole overwhelming operation when l was 3
l had congenital heart defect... Hole in my heart Also painful all
the needles, tubes coming out, painful stitches!

I am sick of people asking me why l have a scar like It is none of their business at all even guys at the pool like that pisses me off like why do you think l have a scar and it is in between my cleavageSo l can not wear v-necks or classy dresses or tanktops because when l do People drill me with all of these stupid questions like Did it hurt? Like hell yea Ok
What should l do about this problem i'm turning 15 now
What do you suggest have you had and open heart surgery experiences ? how do you deal with the arrogance?
And is there any website where you can relate to people who had this done too??
Thanks a bunch!

The fact that u have this scar is inconsequential. The fact that u r still alive is what u should think about. My husband has a scar running down the middle of his chest, & from the top to the bottom of his right leg where the doctors harvested the vein to replace his bad heart arteries. He may be considerably older than you, but in our circle of friends he is welcomed as another member of the ''zipper club''. Tell those who ask about it that you're alive because of that scar.and it is none of their business.